…oving capturing arguments to SerializationHelper (same optimization as it was done in serializeRowBody)

…f we do insert/updates)

…lustering key (a single row) to modify

…ingle partition key (a single row) to modify, optimize also the case if a partition or clustering key is a single column

…tten unconditionally, in this case we can avoid columns info merging and builders allocation

…red a read (plain usual write), avoid iterator allocation, use array instead of ArrayList for perStatementOptions which does not grow dynamically